Secrete romance is painful! Spending time looking at someone you love secretely will surely hurt you when they talk to someone else of the opposite sex.
When it comes to "Competitors Type Of Romance", you must learn that there are times when someone you love ( and they love you too) will do some silly things to hurt you. As indicated in the picture, for example, they will refuse going out with you. That doesn't mean that they don't love you.